In one of my groups, I developed a close friendship with a man who was a temple
worker and had a beautiful family. Although he tried hard and made some good
progress he eventually gave it up for a single, carefree life. He made a choice
and ultimately chose cutoffs and the gym over the church and his family. I think
part of the reason he made that choice was because he felt he had no choice.
But, you do have a choice, there is a way out. There are many men and women who
are making correct choices in difficult situations and as a result are making
significant changes in their lives.
Our lives are made up of a series of small choices. Seldom do we make a
large, consequential decision. It's the little things we do that shape our
character and make us who we are. Our character is the composite, the net
result, of all those small choices. Let's explore our power to choose and how
those choices influence our eternal lives.
In the Doctrine and Covenants we read: "I prepared all things and have given
unto the children of men to be agents unto themselves." (D&C 104:17) What does
it mean to be agents unto ourselves? It is important to understand the concepts
of free agency and freedom.
Agency, free agency, and moral agency all refer to our power to exercise our
will and make choices. Freedom refers to the power and privilege to carry out
those choices. [Many of the ideas in the following paragraphs are taken from a
talk titled "Free Agency and Freedom," by Dallin H. Oaks, Brigham Young
University 1987-88 Devotional and Fireside Speeches, BYU Publications,
Provo, UT, 1988, pp. 46-47. An edited version is also found in The Book of
Mormon: Second Nephi, The Doctrinal Structure, Papers from the Third Annual Book
of Mormon Symposium, edited by Monte S. Nyman and Charles D. Tate, Jr.,
Religious Studies Center, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah, 1989. pp.
1-17.]
Free agency
Before we came to earth, God gave each of us our free agency the power to
choose see Alma13:3). In fact, one of the principal reasons we came to this
earth was to be proven, to see if we would do everything we are commanded to do
(see Abraham 3:25). In the council in heaven, Satan presented an alternative
plan that denied free agency. When it was rejected, he rebelled, "and sought to
destroy the agency of man, which I, the Lord God, had given him" (Moses 4:3-4).
Knowing that Satan is anxious to have us misuse the power of free agency, we
need to be careful in the choices we make. "Wherefore, the Lord God gave unto
man that he should act for himself" (2 Nephi 2:16). "Therefore, cheer up your
hearts, and remember that ye are free to act for yourselves to choose the way of
everlasting death or the way of eternal life" (2 Nephi 10:23). God has given us
our free agency, the power to choose, and no person or organization can take it
away.
Freedom
What can be taken away or reduced in this life is our freedom, which is the
power to act on our choices. Elder Dallin H. Oaks has explained that "free
agency is absolute, but in the circumstances of mortality freedom is always
qualified." ["Free Agency and Freedom," by Dallin H. Oaks, The Book of
Mormon: Second Nephi, The Doctrinal Structure, Papers from the Third Annual Book
of Mormon Symposium, edited by Monte S. Nyman and Charles D. Tate, Jr.,
Religious Studies Center, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah, 1989. p. 10.]
He explains that freedom may be qualified or taken away in three ways:
- By physical laws. For example, we are bound by the physical law of gravity
and cannot choose to disobey it. There may also be some physical limitations
with which we are born.
- By the actions of others. We live under governments that impose laws and
restrictions for the common good of society.
- By our own actions. We may choose of ourselves to impose restrictions on
our individual freedom, such as when we buckle our seat belt or sign a
contract. In these instances, we use our free agency to choose to temporarily
limit certain individual freedoms to help us achieve more important eternal
freedoms. This is the concept of setting personal boundaries. For example, if
we know we are susceptible to certain addictive behaviors, we can decide to
limit our access to places or conditions that might make it easy for us to go
astray.
A restriction of freedom in these ways "reduces the extent to which we can
act upon our choices, but it does not deprive us of our God-given free agency."
["Free Agency and Freedom," by Dallin H. Oaks, The Book of Mormon: Second
Nephi, The Doctrinal Structure, Papers from the Third Annual Book of Mormon
Symposium, edited by Monte S. Nyman and Charles D. Tate, Jr., Religious
Studies Center, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah, 1989. p. 11.]
Consequences
We tend to think of agency as a personal matter. Often overlooked, however,
is the fact that choices have consequences. We are free to consider our options,
to make choices and to act, but once an action has been taken we are not free
from its consequences. An astronaut, for example, makes the choice to enter the
rocket. He can withdraw any time before the rocket fuel is ignited, but once it
is, he is bound by the consequences of his choice. There is an eternal principle
of the Law of the Harvest (see Galatians 6:7-9). We reap what we sow. Actions
have consequences.
Each of us has a choice between right and wrong. But with that choice there
inevitably will follow consequences. Those who choose to violate the
commandments of God put themselves at great spiritual and physical jeopardy. The
Apostle Paul said, "The wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23). Gordon B. Hinckley
[Ensign, May 1987, p. 47]
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